Sex in Today's Life and Spiritual Sex

[Matt1]

Interesting thread thus far. I have no experience of relationships and find it an almost impossible experience for some reason. Its not that i have any issues with the opposite sex but rather nothing has happened before. It makes me wonder if i have programmed for a life experience alone rather than in a relationship. It often amazes me how easy people talk about relationships like they are something that happens so easily. I like to think i get on fairly well with the opposite sex at least in general terms, i can talk with them and things but i cannot seem to make any connections or even become friends with females for some reason that is unknown to me at least beyond the generalities. I get the idea that most females are seeking the ideal mate who looks the part, acts the part socially and emotionally, with a nice career to boot. I cannot say I blame them to be honest, if I was a female i would probably seek the same thing in a male. I have this strange view that i find most females generally attractive at least when they make the effort which i think that most do at least from what i have seen. Perhaps i have the wrong view on the matter, but with limited experience of catalyst in that area i can only go with what i see around me on a daily basis rather than having a direct experience to go on. I feel that i basically do not meet the standard desired criteria for a mate and thus am rejected socially from any such experience, if i change my self to make my self more generically desirable i believe i would probably have more luck with this catalyst but in the process of that i would lose who i am in order to gain a relationship.