Forgiveness: What about it?

[Nicholas]

On what grounds and for what purpose should I bathe them in absolution? 

  Buddha said that anger is like holding a hot coal with the intent to throw it at someone - it burns you first.  

Yes I remember a quote similar to this but do not know who originally said it..."Forgiveness is like setting someone free only to realise you were the prisoner." 

Also, my favourite Banksy picture...



You say you hear an echo within you saying "it is what it IS".  That sounds like your own inner wisdom? Ra did note that for the most part, the harvest of our previously experienced lives which they term pure emotions, wisdoms, biases and distortions were largely ignored or underestimated while in physical form.