Forgiveness: What about it?

[Minyatur]

Elros Tar-Minyatur :
If you view others are yourself or other-selves, then something you cannot forgive simply is something you understand not. A paradox to be solved like any other.

The matter is not in the 'forgiving' but more in the allowing the behaviour to continue.  I feel some form of accountability is needed before understanding can take place.  It does not have to be paradoxical. 

The paradox lies in that self is among self, and as such it creates conflict between truthful expressions of ourselves despite everything being One.

I'd view a blind forgiveness as faith that any other-self is you, and that you deserve to be loved.