10-23-2015, 12:02 PM
(10-22-2015, 11:11 AM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote: They get angry a lot, and it rubs on me and eventually I'll call them out on it. Then I feel better, but they feel worse apparently.
It's good for you to react the way you feel you should. We are supposed to be mirrors for each other. We want to always reflect love but if someone isn't responding to love, sometimes they need to know/hear what their actions are doing to others. She may feel worse because she feels guilty, or intensifies her actions to validate them more. If you act out of love, which I believe you do even when you get short with her, you can do no wrong, Gem.
I don't think a life review is to feel the emotions that you have caused others. That's karma. If karma gets too deep we reincarnate in another whole situation where we experience the intensity of emotions that way. But I think a lot of little/emotional karma happens in the moment, like Tanner said, and like you say - you are expressing similar emotions together, in the moment. It's a wash (on your end at least. She sounds like she might be digging herself into a bit more of place that needs self forgiveness)
But, again as Tanner said, it is your responsibility to act upon your emotions if you feel called to, and not push them down or ignore them. Even if things get heated, forgiveness is always a tool that is available.
Quote:Ra: In forgiveness lies the stoppage of the wheel of action, or what you call karma.
Quote:18.12 Questioner: You stated yesterday that forgiveness is the eradicator of karma. I am assuming that balanced forgiveness for the full eradication of karma would require forgiveness not only of other-selves but forgiveness of self. Am I correct?
Ra: I am Ra. You are correct. We will briefly expand upon this understanding in order to clarify.
Forgiveness of other-self is forgiveness of self. An understanding of this insists upon full forgiveness upon the conscious level of self and other-self, for they are one. A full forgiveness is thus impossible without the inclusion of self.
Quote:34.4 Questioner: Thank you. Would you define karma?
Ra: I am Ra. Our understanding of karma is that which may be called inertia. Those actions which are put into motion will continue using the ways of balancing until such time as the controlling or higher principle which you may liken unto your braking or stopping is invoked. This stoppage of the inertia of action may be called forgiveness. These two concepts are inseparable.