10-22-2015, 02:24 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-22-2015, 02:26 PM by Nicholas.
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Hi Goldenlight.
I very much agree with Jade here. I would like to put a question to you as I suspect a codependency between the two of you. Why are you repeatedly maintaining this friendship when you are finding it draining, and her body language doesn't correspond with her words?
Other than that I would say that if STO feels more right to you then it is counter productive to mix with those that find STS ways more enthusing. Even the greatest model of STO humans have tinkered with STS behaviour to some extent. Perhaps that is why STO requires a 51% threshold, giving time and opportunity to become conscious of what those behaviours actually are, and being able to point the compass in a more assured STO direction.
Nick.
PS. Welcome to the community
I very much agree with Jade here. I would like to put a question to you as I suspect a codependency between the two of you. Why are you repeatedly maintaining this friendship when you are finding it draining, and her body language doesn't correspond with her words?
Other than that I would say that if STO feels more right to you then it is counter productive to mix with those that find STS ways more enthusing. Even the greatest model of STO humans have tinkered with STS behaviour to some extent. Perhaps that is why STO requires a 51% threshold, giving time and opportunity to become conscious of what those behaviours actually are, and being able to point the compass in a more assured STO direction.
Nick.
PS. Welcome to the community
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