I would be more than happy to go far more in depth with a good friend in a face to face relationship, but an internet forum only allows me a certain degree of latitude.
The one method I have divulged may, or may not help you. Don't even consider it without talking to me voice. There are details not appropriate for an internet forum.
The methods to meet them on an intimate level (Face to Face) are far more extreme and far more dangerous.
I do in fact know such methods. It is doubtful I would ever share those. Certainly not on the internet, or even the telephone.
If you are happy and not in pain with the way things are for you now I would recommend keeping things as they are.