Everything in moderatation the key is balance when it comes to addiction. there is an imbalance if you addicted to something.
as a person who recovered from drug addiction from a personal point it all comes down to acceptance. I use to distort how Ra says something along the lines that you shouldn't suppress your desires as an excuse to indulge in my addiction, but what i learned was that my indulgence of my addiction was in its own way me suppressing myself. I thought that i shouldn't resist the urge to snort this and spend my money on that, but i eventually discovered with myself that my urge to do that was born from my desire to suppress my sobriety.
long story short some of the urges you feel that you shouldn't suppress dealing with sex or addiction or whatever, my be an urge to suppress something else that your not aware of.
as a person who recovered from drug addiction from a personal point it all comes down to acceptance. I use to distort how Ra says something along the lines that you shouldn't suppress your desires as an excuse to indulge in my addiction, but what i learned was that my indulgence of my addiction was in its own way me suppressing myself. I thought that i shouldn't resist the urge to snort this and spend my money on that, but i eventually discovered with myself that my urge to do that was born from my desire to suppress my sobriety.
long story short some of the urges you feel that you shouldn't suppress dealing with sex or addiction or whatever, my be an urge to suppress something else that your not aware of.