What truely makes someone STS

[Aion]

The choice is the only thing that truly makes anyone one or the other. The choice being made consciously. I think the attempt to justify the choice then comes.

I strongly disagree. That would negate nearly everything Ra said about the attributes of the paths. Plus, that would mean that no one every polarizes in either direction until they consciously choose to. (Assuming you meant the choice to actively pursue a path.)

Unless you mean the choice to serve self vs self/other-self? which is a different choice and one that is made on a moment-by-moment basis.

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Ra: I am Ra. This is incorrect. The second-density concept of serving self includes the serving of those associated with tribe or pack. This is not seen in second density as separation of self and other-self. All is seen as self since in some forms of second-density entities, if the tribe or pack becomes weakened, so does the entity within the tribe or pack.

The new or initial third-density entity has this innocent, shall we say, bias or distortion towards viewing those in the family, the society, as you would call, perhaps, country, as self. Thus though a distortion not helpful for progress in third density, it is without polarity.

The break becomes apparent when the entity perceives other-selves as other-selves and consciously determines to manipulate other-selves for the benefit of the self. This is the beginning of the road of which you speak.

This is the choice I mean.