How to balance?

[Matt1]

Okay, so the act of accepting the dipole, creates the balance? So one does not approve or disapprove of thought/emotion but simple accepts it completely from both sides. In this case by consciously finding both the patience and impatience or the impatience and patience then simply accepting them is balancing them out? Thus not having a reaction nor overcoming/suppressing them?

no the best example of this is..

being real.

For example lets say you call yourself a very patient person.. The next step is to look for a situation within your life experience where you last felt impatient towards a situation and what about that situation, the people and yourself was going on internally that led you to this decision of being impatient.

Ultimately the energy is always going to be there, and it is going to be up to the conscious observer to choose where this energy goes. Does it go to further love and acceptance and ultimately unity or does it go to fear and separation?

Seperation would be like, dammit i can't stand this situation i can't stand you, please stay out of my life.

Unity would be, while you made me feel this way i'm wondering further what it is about me that i'm unable to accept that I see in you.


Balancing was the hardest to tackle without absorbing other disciplines of study in order to understand balancing completely. Otherwise it stays in your head and it does not get application to real life.


With that said I recommend The Lightworkers Way by Doreen Virtue. 

I've been saying to my students lately the colors, placement, and numbers of your chakras don't matter.

It is the emotional theme that corresponds to each chakra. THAT is what you ponder.. that is the catalyst.

I understand what you are saying i agree mostly but feel what you are saying is more of a general view or the more obvious one. I was talking more about the mechanics of the technique rather than anything else. I think i have a fair idea of the process, i like how it relates well to mindfulness or awareness in consciousness allowing for the simple acceptance of catalyst as it rises but being aware of the dipole nature of it as well.