How do you tell your family that you fell utterly disconnected from them, are indifferent towards them and/or hate and resent resent them (or at least some of them) and that a part of you desires to cut them out of your life and be on your way, with no desire to give the relationship another go and try and mend it? I ask because this is how I feel towards my family, have felt so for a long time now, and have not even so much as hinted that I may be feeling this way (I am the quite one who stays in his room). Such a revelation would come as completely unexpected to them I am pretty sure, which is why this is hard, as I am gonna have to be the one break the illusion of 'wellness'.
I realize that sooner or later these thoughts and feelings are going to have to be revealed, and being that I am 22 years old and I desire to move out, sooner is better than later. The bubble is gonna have to burst, even though there is intense resistance and all I really wan't to do is run away and not have to face and express this. I just don't know how to do it and what to do afterwards. I'm tired of pretending that all is well and dandy, when in actual fact it isn't. I'm tired of lying to myself and other. Any advice?
I realize that sooner or later these thoughts and feelings are going to have to be revealed, and being that I am 22 years old and I desire to move out, sooner is better than later. The bubble is gonna have to burst, even though there is intense resistance and all I really wan't to do is run away and not have to face and express this. I just don't know how to do it and what to do afterwards. I'm tired of pretending that all is well and dandy, when in actual fact it isn't. I'm tired of lying to myself and other. Any advice?
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