I Awesome! I love the honesty being portrayed!
I don't mind in the least bit having someone confront my intentions and ideas when phrased as spaced did. Actually I welcome it. His post was actually constructive. Like I've already stated multiple times, if my words were too harsh, I apologized. The whole direct insult to you was too harsh which is what I was apologizing for.
I'm sorry but if someone takes my words and applies a negative emotion to it when my intentions are anything but, that's their issue. Its. Its not like I directly addressed the concept and said it was wrong or bad. Never in my entire explanation have I ever stated there was anything wrong with it at all. If my words brought about such emotions, again I apologize but will not take them back because from my point of view, the intentions were pure and honest.
My reactions have never been emotionally charged and that's where the difference was. I'll admit the direct insult was out of line. Subsequent comments are based upon a measured response to everyone's comments.
And who's to say what trans people prefer is right? How can my honesty not be seen as a potential catalyst for further understanding of a lack of self acceptance? Instead it's seen as disrespectful and hurtful. What someone thinks doesn't necessarily make it right and it also means that what I think may be wrong. That's the difference. I totally entertain the notion that I could be wrong. The other side of the coin is that Im immediately labeled as disrespectful before a proper evaluation of the intentions and purpose for my words has occurred.
I understand your frustration and what you perceive to be my disrespect. I'm not backpedddling in the least. Thus is just the course that this thread has taken and if such questions would have arisen earlier, I would have responded the same.
Oh and the instability part was geared specifically towards Caitlyn and no one else. The reason I said it was because they are referring to themselves as both Bruce and Caitlyn and in 3rd person. From a psychological perspective, one has to wonder about what's going on in their head. I say they is because both are being used so how am I supposed to think when the person involved can't even figure it out?
See that's the thing, people taking what I said about a single situation and applied it to the entire community and lifestyle. If one were to read what I said carefully enough, you can see that. Instead, emotions went into overdrive which clouded this.
Also if the mods are reading this, I'm perfectly ok with explaining myself like this and take no disrespect in any of it.
I don't mind in the least bit having someone confront my intentions and ideas when phrased as spaced did. Actually I welcome it. His post was actually constructive. Like I've already stated multiple times, if my words were too harsh, I apologized. The whole direct insult to you was too harsh which is what I was apologizing for.
I'm sorry but if someone takes my words and applies a negative emotion to it when my intentions are anything but, that's their issue. Its. Its not like I directly addressed the concept and said it was wrong or bad. Never in my entire explanation have I ever stated there was anything wrong with it at all. If my words brought about such emotions, again I apologize but will not take them back because from my point of view, the intentions were pure and honest.
My reactions have never been emotionally charged and that's where the difference was. I'll admit the direct insult was out of line. Subsequent comments are based upon a measured response to everyone's comments.
And who's to say what trans people prefer is right? How can my honesty not be seen as a potential catalyst for further understanding of a lack of self acceptance? Instead it's seen as disrespectful and hurtful. What someone thinks doesn't necessarily make it right and it also means that what I think may be wrong. That's the difference. I totally entertain the notion that I could be wrong. The other side of the coin is that Im immediately labeled as disrespectful before a proper evaluation of the intentions and purpose for my words has occurred.
I understand your frustration and what you perceive to be my disrespect. I'm not backpedddling in the least. Thus is just the course that this thread has taken and if such questions would have arisen earlier, I would have responded the same.
Oh and the instability part was geared specifically towards Caitlyn and no one else. The reason I said it was because they are referring to themselves as both Bruce and Caitlyn and in 3rd person. From a psychological perspective, one has to wonder about what's going on in their head. I say they is because both are being used so how am I supposed to think when the person involved can't even figure it out?
See that's the thing, people taking what I said about a single situation and applied it to the entire community and lifestyle. If one were to read what I said carefully enough, you can see that. Instead, emotions went into overdrive which clouded this.
Also if the mods are reading this, I'm perfectly ok with explaining myself like this and take no disrespect in any of it.