Excuses!

[Minyatur]

Mm I think you can make huge excuses towards fears and things one may not desire at all, and the like.  Be careful with your use of the word, Only, Min.  It's the one thing I'd caution of your post.

I didn't mean it as something bad. Usually fears are oriented toward desired things. I do not have much fears but my ex did and she had extreme anxiety problems. In her case she desired things so much that the thought of them not working out would destroy her mentally and she ended up failing at many things simply because of fear.

These fears need to be worked on, but when you fear what's inside you become convinced that you are not strong enough to face yourself back to the root of the problems.