Learning to Love Indifference

[VanAlioSaldo]

I'm just going through a really rough patch with myself.

I can't seem to comprehend how Indifference and Unconditional Love are any different in action when viewed side by side, especially when dealing with indifference.

I see it as.  In indifference you may sometimes act the same way as if you were providing unconditional love.

Someone attacks, with indifference or love as a response, does one not basically allow ones self to be attacked?
But is it still the fault of the attacked for letting the attacker attack?

Or.  My biggest issue is just plain indifference.  I'm having a hard time loving its infinite ways of letting people do whatever they want to me...

i don't believe unconditional love lets other people do whatever the hell they want to you
otherwise it's not unconditional love because you are not unconditionally loving yourself

once you start to finally unconditionally love your self including others it is then possible to start the formation of healthy boundaries. Within the heart of self you know what is good for you and what you want, but you do not necessarily know what is good for others. However it is important to know if what others are seeking is a detriment or a positive addition to your being. If this is not the case, then you must understand these people come into your life because they are putting the same vibration of energy into their choices and actions as you are. Ultimately it is spirit trying to show you the quality of the energy you put out.

Thank you. This is the Law of Attraction essentially.

But the major Point I'm trying to elaborate at, is that the Spirit programs Catalyst, then joins a Human which will experience that Catalyst.

Did the Human ever have a choice or is the Human forced to merger with souls and go through Catalyst?