05-20-2015, 01:36 PM
Honestly. I learned very fast that people don't need anything from you beyond what is at that moment needed. A thirsty person needs water. A hungry person needs food. A sad person needs a smile and care, and a mad person needs gentleness and patience. A homeless person needs aid regardless, and a hurt person needs physical aid.
I mean obviously people do sometimes need things before they're currently needed, but as far as approaching others in Service to Others in a way that is unconditional...to perceive need can become overwhelming. I try to focus on what is needed in the Now, rather than whenever. I just find it's easier for me and more gratifying for the other as well.
If they need something, but aren't in need, is it necessary to help them unconditionally, or can I just be helpful? Similarly, is it neutralizing to be selfishly selfless or does it allow one to polarize in either direction dependent on circumstance?
This Path of All, as I look at how I mean for it to operate, may be also seen as a Way of Interaction between opposing polarizing entities. A way to operate together.
My concept of two friends working together does really make me ponder if there have ever been any entities of STS and STO who have paired up to polarize off of each other as friends.
I mean obviously people do sometimes need things before they're currently needed, but as far as approaching others in Service to Others in a way that is unconditional...to perceive need can become overwhelming. I try to focus on what is needed in the Now, rather than whenever. I just find it's easier for me and more gratifying for the other as well.
If they need something, but aren't in need, is it necessary to help them unconditionally, or can I just be helpful? Similarly, is it neutralizing to be selfishly selfless or does it allow one to polarize in either direction dependent on circumstance?
This Path of All, as I look at how I mean for it to operate, may be also seen as a Way of Interaction between opposing polarizing entities. A way to operate together.
My concept of two friends working together does really make me ponder if there have ever been any entities of STS and STO who have paired up to polarize off of each other as friends.