The Frustration of Myself

[VanAlioSaldo]

body parts that are considered provocative.

It's time to quit seeing body parts as provocative, I think - esp the booty...g-string bathing suits are allowed on beaches...oh my, the horror! that's asking to get raped! especially if you're not older than x years old! *rolls eyes*

Boobs never should have been seen as provocative...idk how that ever came about.

It's absurd we must clothe ourselves, imo.

Please.  PLEASE!

Design the social programming, we need more of your ideals in my opinion.

At the same time though I want to move away from your area of discussion simply because I believe what youve said but its not the perceived issue I'm looking at.

I understand girls wanting to be sexy or wanted even unconsciously.  Wear the somewhat provocative stuff, just...standards Isis.

Women aren't objects in my mind, children are even less so in my mind.  To objectify them to me is wrong.  The clothing performs the act.  If they want to be attractive why don't we educate them, PROPERLY ,(as in sex ed needs to go in place of Personal Education), and give them a more...

Better lifely perspective to grow into other than, Dress like a slut to attract attention then wonder why men only seem to want sex the rest of their lives.

Is that truly an appropriate way to raise our children?  Dress like a sexualized object if you want because...  you want to?  Some form of guidance should be needed for every child, even if its as simple as, you can dress like that but here's why I don't want you to.  I worry about how others will view and interact with you, and i worry others will strongly disrespect you enough to not care you're Human.

Woman got raped in a very publicized case where the judge blamed her getting raped on her provocative clothing, saying she was asking for it (which is wrong imo).

So yes, there is my view, others, then the way its actually handled.  Men, some of them, truly see girls who dress that way as nothing more than this soft fleshy thing to manipulate into fucking then dropping off the radar.  If not abusing them emotionally by using their learned dependence on their attractiveness to make them.have sex with them (have seen it, I call that emotional abuse).

Its just horrible.  I wish I could do more about those things than just desire them to not happen as often to others... until hopefully one day it stops completely...

But I can't.  And usually my trying to say anything gets me called several names once you bring the sexes into the discussion.

Id never sexualize a boy or a girl that young for any reason.  That's my issue.  How is that a healthy development?  Learning how to be superficially aesthetically attractive without an ounce further of independence?

This society...  -shakes head looking down-