03-17-2015, 05:04 AM
(This post was last modified: 03-17-2015, 11:05 AM by APeacefulWarrior.)
(03-17-2015, 04:39 AM)seven Wrote: I'm helpful by nature and I like to try to help out by drawing from my own experiences with acceptance and letting things go, forgiveness etc. But I can't help wondering if this actually is, in fact, not helping. Perhaps the struggle is what some people need, to develop a stronger urge for separation and negativity.
As Ra said, there are no mistakes. By trying to help, you ARE helping. In your own way. Every experience we provide for each other is another teaching/learning experience. For one thing, don't overlook your own growth. Your interactions with people help you learn how to better interact with people in the future.
Also, if you're meddling in the business of a negative type who just wants you to f*** the hell off, you're probably pissing him off with your attempts. And that feeds his negativity and gives him more primal energies. So by failing to help him become positive, you'd be instead helping him become more negative, which IS doing him a service from his POV. (Even if he'd never admit it.
)Besides, it's doubtful anyone here is teetering on the edge of 7th-hood or something. These are all just the games we play to slowly learn more about ourselves and the universe. The end of the path is renunciation of polarities anyway, so how a person chooses to explore polarities along the way doesn't matter in the big picture.
(Or perhaps to misquote Bogey, it doesn't take much to see that the karma of a few little people doesn't amount to a hill of beans in this crazy cosmos.
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