01-09-2015, 06:20 PM
(01-09-2015, 05:39 PM)Gemini Wolf Wrote: I never argue with her, though I once almost punched her because she really ticked me off when she was screaming at me and turned off the tv I was watching.
I don't usually get too mad. I am less angry than her. She suffers because she lets herself get so mad.
I think I can be at peace with her. There are worse mothers out there. I don't think I could handle a girlfriend.
Speaking from my experience, usually when someone is like that, it's really hard to understand and you usually have to accept you can't really understand them because you aren't in their mind. That's the part of acceptance in the LOO, accepting self and accepting other-selves. No one is perfect and no one tries to do wrong intentionnaly, usually they are caught up in pattern of thoughts they aren't able to break free from. It is a work only them can do and which everyone has to do but, there are simply those for which it becomes self-destructive.
It is really hard in general to break free from let's say the "Matrix of the Mind". These are the beliefs of who you are and it takes a lot of meditation to work them through. People with emotionnal problems will have a much harder time breaking this "Matrix" because facing it hurts them. Sadly it is something for them to realize and it is not something that can be forced upon them althought it could be helped by providing catalysts.
It is hard and not for everyone to deal with. But if you can understand someone who seem so much irrational to you, you will understand and accept anyone.
I know this is hard to deal with, I wish you a lot of love and light
