7th density work here in 3rd density

[Jade]

can u forgive urself even if the other party hasn't? can one walk away from karma by forgiving self?

If you truly forgive yourself and the other party, then there is nothing they can do to get a rise out of you anymore. The emotional triggers can be alleviated. It's a little more difficult to escape any preincarnative agreements you may have with other parties - if you agreed to rub each other the wrong way to help each other grow, that may be something that you have to deal with. But as long as you don't act in a consciously unloving manner towards another, you aren't incurring any new karma.

12.29 ↥ Questioner: What could one of these entities do to become karmically involved? Could you give us an example?

Ra: I am Ra. An entity which acts in a consciously unloving manner in action with other beings can become karmically involved.