12-11-2014, 08:36 AM
We were considered the outsiders also as we were the "druggies" but none of us had problems finding girlfriends though since they were also into that scene. I'm sure there was some lesson to be had from not experiencing such a thing yet but it seems like you're at a point where it is indeed time.
From my experience, those who provided the most useful lessons appeared without me actually looking. When I was actively seeking someone, it was like a dry lake lol. So I say set the intention that you'd like to meet someone but don't go overboard searching. Dating sites are basically useless for people with our abstract ways of thinking. Trust me, I never found anyone that came close to matching my interests plus having any level of attraction.
It is indeed a wonderful experience to be had. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't but during those times, you are presented with such intense mirroring, you will learn a great deal about yourself that you never saw while working upon yourself alone.
From my experience, those who provided the most useful lessons appeared without me actually looking. When I was actively seeking someone, it was like a dry lake lol. So I say set the intention that you'd like to meet someone but don't go overboard searching. Dating sites are basically useless for people with our abstract ways of thinking. Trust me, I never found anyone that came close to matching my interests plus having any level of attraction.
It is indeed a wonderful experience to be had. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't but during those times, you are presented with such intense mirroring, you will learn a great deal about yourself that you never saw while working upon yourself alone.
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