So it's as simple as focusing on what you want, and improving/honing this focus, and then living it? And those things which simply aren't harmonious from an objective view point can't enter your life? I do imagine that most negative catalyst is simply misperception like you said. What about when you do mess up? Simply apologise,forgive and move on?
And the feelings of lack, where do they come from?
And the feelings of lack, where do they come from?