Breaking the Cycle of Reincarnation

[Conifer16]

Does anyone know briefly what we need to do in this life in order to not have to reincarnate? I don't want to get to the other side and then decide I want to come back because of creating more lessons for myself. I want to be done with my lessons.

Is it all about karma? And can all this karma be eliminated through me forgiving others? I've got nothing left to forgive. Everything I needed to I have forgiven that I'm aware of. I don't want subconscious karma to hold me fixed to Earth. I believe I am a wanderer from another world, and I want to go home.

This may be my own belief colouring this, but I was under the impression that we didn't HAVE to do anything.

That due to free will we could literally do whatever the heck we wanted to. So if you didn't want to incarnate you could hang out for a million years.

If you really wanted to.

Now as to how to keep yourself from incarnating...

I don't know.

This life is a unique personality. Crafted by pre-life choices and in-life experiences. What you feel here in the now may not carry over 100% once you say goodbye to your body this time around.

It is my understanding from an intuitive stance, and somewhat from TLOO, that when you die you are not consumed by your more full self.

Rather who you have always been is remembered and you become more fully yourself.

It is an additive experience, not a subtractive one.

Which would imply to me that your(this life's desires) are taken into consideration once you are on the other side.

If you are really a wanderer from another world/density, then from what I remember in TLOO, it is highly unlikely that you will become beholden to any Karmic ties in this life. That when you entered this density and body, there was a(as I imagine it) thin film or membrane protecting you from Karmic stuff.

Kinda like Karma being water and this "film" being hydrophobic. simply not allowing any of Karma to actually grab on.

Of course, I can't actually say what happens when we die. Perhaps TLOO is indeed wishful thinking and there is just void. Or perhaps TLOO is absolutely correct.

Maybe it is even something else.

Until we all experience death, we won't know for sure. All we can do is trust our intuition, and make the most of life and the opportunities for personal growth and just generally having fun.

Really, it is 50/50. There is either something more, or there isn't.

There is not much point to worrying. Since life now is certain, I figure that it is life now that I will focus on. I will try my best to be a good person, based on my moral compass and intuitive sense of what is good, and I will do my best to really enjoy this life to the fullest.

After all, none of us are making it out alive. We are all born to die. :-P

I of course believe in the immortality of consciousness. And in TLOO.

So for me the perspective above is tinted by a multi-life perspective and an understanding of infinity.

Which often makes me feel outside of the game. And misunderstood by everyone that is so wrapped up in material reality.

In the idea that getting a job, marrying, having kids, and dying is all there is.

That nations matter and politics are just a fact of life. That the way things are, are the way they are meant to be. And can't be changed.

That everything is black and white. There is no middle ground. You are either good or evil. It is either day or night. Cold or hot. Past or future.

I used to think that I didn't have faith. That only a Christian, or other religious person, could have faith. I actually thought I was Atheistic.

But I have since realized that I have tons of faith. I used to need validation from science to believe anything. I needed hard fact that could not be changed. Statistics, data.

Then I read TLOO and realized that everything I really did believe was mostly summed up in a succinct fashion by Ra.

And that my faith was impossibly powerful.

I feel like I am getting off topic a little(actually a lot. sorry), which I often do in face to face convo's too, but I am trying to say that I feel it is very likely that you will get to do whatever you want once you die.

I think there is not much you need be worried about with regards to death or life, or living again.

Eternity means no beginning or end.
Infinite adventure. Infinite experience. Infinite possibility.

I mean't this to be uplifting for you, but have managed to get myself super super excited all over again. lol :-D


p.s
I realized a little bit after I started writing that you totally weren't saying that we HAD to reincarnate. but rather that you just didn't want to. And were wondering if there was a way to make that cycle stop. So I changed my point soon after that and I hope it got through as such.