Responding to Physical Harm

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I believe it is lack of compassion for the self if you let it be traumatized by an act. I simply advocate non-trauma at the risk of possibly enjoying trauma. I think that is a far better alternative than a knot of fear that is harder to untie.

Enjoying trauma isn't the only want to deal with trauma. It's not either or situation - it's not you either enjoy it or you become knotted in fear.

Acceptance doesn't require enjoyment. Understanding and faith are the primary methods of acceptance, in my opinion.