Tons of Anxiety

[Jeremy]

Gemini, it might be time to find somebody else to take care of your mother so you can take care of yourself and be happy. When you're happy and able, go back to your mother and only do what you can.

Just a suggestion.

I second this. Brother, you have been held down by her for far too long. This is one of those defining moments where you're love for her can still be preserved by standing up for yourself and taking some responsibility for your life by freeing yourself from this servitude towards her. I know it's out of love but it also seems like it's out of obligation. An obligation that is bound by constant belittlement and enslavement with comments that guilt you into remaining within this otherwise poisonous environment.

I honestly don't see how you can ever progress within this type of environment.