Acceptance and Will

[Adonai One]

Your question, "How does one choose the STO path while accepting that which is not chosen?", brings this Ra quote to mind:

18.5 The orientation develops due to analysis of desire. These desires become more and more distorted towards conscious application of love/light as the entity furnishes itself with distilled experience. We have found it to be inappropriate in the extreme to encourage the overcoming of any desires, except to suggest the imagination rather than the carrying out in the physical plane, as you call it, of those desires not consonant with the Law of One, thus preserving the primal distortion of free will.

I have seen you point out in a post before, Monica, that when imagination is used, the brain cannot tell the difference. Perhaps this is one part of accepting that which is not chosen. "Anything goes," in our imagination, but not in the physical plane, as far as preserving our polarization goes.

"Anything goes" in the physical plane if one is accepting enough of the plane's interaction inherently to where one will not act against another naturally without suppression of the self.