Wanting Our Own World

[Unbound]

I think there is more waiting for you, if you are willing to take the steps to go beyond your fears, but that is just what my intuition says. I think your fantasies are 'safe', and surely, there is no harm in you having them, have at'er aha but I do feel like they are maybe a security, a comfort zone that while it does 'protect' you, it is also a way to avoid having to deal with the more uncertain experiences of the real world and real love. A bubble that protects us and keeps us in, also keeps out everything else.

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That could very well be. But I'm always afraid of getting lost when I go to new places. I think my fantasies fulfill me.
Or maybe they don't because I'm not always happy.
But being in a relationship they'd be times when I'm not happy either.
And humans have drama.

My friend, in the other thread you ask how to feel ok?

This is my answer - get messy, get dirty, make mistakes, try things out, attempt things, LIVE WITHOUT FEAR.