How to negatively polarize in a balanced manner

[anagogy]

I understand why you think that. We're just going to have to disagree on this one.

I believe equating self-esteem to the negative polarity is extremely damaging to those who do have self-esteem, especially when somebody rationally prioritizes their well-being over others in certain situations.

Damaging to who exactly?

I do not see how somebody can gain a momentum of realizing "what is not" just clinging to a role of power for the sake of it alone. There needs to be a momentum of rejection in my view, else they are just depolarized.

The service to self polarization is the path of potentiating "that which is not" only in the sense that separation is completely illusory. In truth, though it may appear otherwise, oneness is, in fact, the actual reality. So they learn to empower, or potentiate, this illusion of separation, which is not actually real, though falsity.

And while there is some truth to the idea that one polarity is predominantly dependent on acceptance, and the other rejection, it must needs be seen that such control *is* the very rejection that embodies the anti-thesis of acceptance. In other words, why would you ever have need to control something unless its natural rhythms of being were unacceptable to you? The negative polarity rejects the natural order, and seeks to organize what it perceives as chaos into its own, ego determined, order. And power is used to accomplish this control.

Ra mentions falsity is the key to the negative polarity. That is what I base this on. There is little to no falsity in seeings others as true, the self as true and gaining satisfaction in just controlling people. There is too much love for people with not enough hunger for something more.

Control is the key to negative polarity. The falsity comes into play because falsity, deception, or separation is the means by which power to control is acquired and/or exercised.

To see everything as you wish it to be, as you say, there has to be continual falsification to the ends of the greatest destruction. I speak on how to balance that.

In a sense, negative and positive polarity develop precisely the same kind of spiritual power. And that spiritual power is the power to discern truth from falsehood. They use this power in precisely opposite ways, however. One uses it to dissolve illusion, and the other uses it to empower illusion.

However, negatives only destroy to serve self, they don't destroy because destruction is some kind of requirement to potentiate that which is not.