Is this what it is: Everything is destined to happen

[anagogy]

I was taught that we create our reality and some of that reality may be decided at our life-review before incarnation.

So:

1) A pedestrian was killed by a drunk-driver. Don't fret. The pedestrian probably asked for it during his life-review.

2) A young girl was raped and killed by four thugs. Nothing to be concerned about. The young girl probably asked for it in her life-review.

3) The four thugs who raped and killed the girl probably agreed to do this deed at their life-reviews. In fact, they helped the girl achieved what she wanted.

4) Hundreds of thousands of children died during the Bandar Aceh Tsunami. Don't grief. All of them probably asked for it at their life-reviews.

5) Your loved one is dying of cancer. It's okay. She probably asked for it at her life-review.

My 3D mind is going nuts over this line of thinking. Is this what it is?

Anyway, don't be concerned about my thinking or mental health, I probably asked for this confusion during my life-review.

All of those situations could very well have been preprogrammed incarnate catalyst. However, one can't know that, so we shouldn't assume that is the case. The "pre-programmed" catalyst is still created in the moment, and can change if the purpose for such extreme catalyst is no longer needed (for whatever galvanizing purpose it served). The preprogrammed catalyst works similar to post hypnotic triggers, which trigger a certain momentum of thought, or karma we might say, which results in the manifested reality.

As terrible as those things you described are, you are only seeing it from the incarnate perspective.

Imagine you had a terrible, and realistic nightmare.

Suddenly, you wake up in bed. You were scared, but from this vantage point, you realize it was all an illusion, and that, in reality, you were never in any danger at all.

Death is waking up from a dream. Whether you were having a dream, or a nightmare, you wake up safe, in the place where you fell asleep. The perspective is different, broader, indestructible, and beyond the lower ranges of human emotion. You reemerge into pure positive energy.

As Ra said in their beautiful prose: "There exists one creation in which there is no loss."

"We leave you in appreciation of the circumstances of the great illusion in which you now choose to play the pipe and timbrel and move in rhythm. We are also players upon a stage. The stage changes. The acts ring down. The lights come up once again. And throughout the grand illusion and the following and the following there is the undergirding majesty of the One Infinite Creator. All is well. Nothing is lost. Go forth rejoicing in the love and the light, the peace and the power of the One Infinite Creator. I am Ra. Adonai."