06-04-2014, 06:27 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-04-2014, 06:32 PM by third-density-being.)
Hello Benny Joe,
I do not think that. Without the knowledege we would not be better. And it is knwoledge which You are refusing to earn.
I would advice You to look deep into Your Parents motivation and to Understand it as They are understanding Their motives. If They are prepared to enslave Them Selves with debt for You, it is an act of Love. Please try to perceive it as such.
Secondly I had in my past commune of Peoples whom I Loved. At some time I even neglected my studies just to BE with Them. It was extremely Pleasure for couple years. Than each of Us choosed His/Her patch and in some cases our choices was very different. After next couple years our commune were not existing anymore. All we had left of it was a Memory.
That's how this reality functions/works - changes are inevitable. Nothing last forever in material realm. Therefore Please be Wise in Your choosing and mindful of consequences of Your choices.
Most important thing above all. "College" is not only "Learning".
When I'm looking back at all my studies, all I remember are PEOPLE. Not sessions, exams or learning the material/logical knowledge. It was the PEOPLE with whom I were experienced all this, whom I supported and whom were supporting me. It was Friendships, Loves and in some cases negativer spectrum of attitudes. But all that makes me Wealthy in Experience and Peoples in my life. THE most Precious of what You can get from life.
Therefore Please before You will reject offering of Your Parents, GO THERE, to the college You are so defensive about. See/experience it and peoples in it. Learn what You are saying NO to. That is my advice to You.
Than propose different major and Learn of it to be able to Teach Your Parents about it. Argue for Your own Choice of Your Growth.
I understand. Nevertheless please keep in mind, that Your current decisions may define Your life (at leat for many, many years). Please make sure that Your motives for shaping Your life are not "local" but rather as Universal as they can be.
Now, in the end, You can reject all and live with commune of Your Friends near local lake. What's next Benny Joe? How will Your life looks like in 5 years? How in 10? How in 20 years?. Those are very important questions.
Please do not answer it too rashly. Take Your time and Mind to see all consequences - both positive and negative - there's never only "one side of the coin". Please be able to see both sides before You will make Your choice.
Take Care
(06-04-2014, 05:27 PM)Benny Joe Wrote: i think humanity would be better if we just went back to nature
I do not think that. Without the knowledege we would not be better. And it is knwoledge which You are refusing to earn.
I would advice You to look deep into Your Parents motivation and to Understand it as They are understanding Their motives. If They are prepared to enslave Them Selves with debt for You, it is an act of Love. Please try to perceive it as such.
Secondly I had in my past commune of Peoples whom I Loved. At some time I even neglected my studies just to BE with Them. It was extremely Pleasure for couple years. Than each of Us choosed His/Her patch and in some cases our choices was very different. After next couple years our commune were not existing anymore. All we had left of it was a Memory.
That's how this reality functions/works - changes are inevitable. Nothing last forever in material realm. Therefore Please be Wise in Your choosing and mindful of consequences of Your choices.
Most important thing above all. "College" is not only "Learning".
When I'm looking back at all my studies, all I remember are PEOPLE. Not sessions, exams or learning the material/logical knowledge. It was the PEOPLE with whom I were experienced all this, whom I supported and whom were supporting me. It was Friendships, Loves and in some cases negativer spectrum of attitudes. But all that makes me Wealthy in Experience and Peoples in my life. THE most Precious of what You can get from life.
Therefore Please before You will reject offering of Your Parents, GO THERE, to the college You are so defensive about. See/experience it and peoples in it. Learn what You are saying NO to. That is my advice to You.
Quote:my parents have taken out a huge sum of money for my college and are forcing me into a specific major i dont want to do.
Than propose different major and Learn of it to be able to Teach Your Parents about it. Argue for Your own Choice of Your Growth.
Quote:my friends own a commune near our local lake and i ideally just want to live my life there without the obligations society gives us.
I understand. Nevertheless please keep in mind, that Your current decisions may define Your life (at leat for many, many years). Please make sure that Your motives for shaping Your life are not "local" but rather as Universal as they can be.
Now, in the end, You can reject all and live with commune of Your Friends near local lake. What's next Benny Joe? How will Your life looks like in 5 years? How in 10? How in 20 years?. Those are very important questions.
Please do not answer it too rashly. Take Your time and Mind to see all consequences - both positive and negative - there's never only "one side of the coin". Please be able to see both sides before You will make Your choice.
Take Care
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