A big life crises

[anagogy]

My only advice is to concentrate on what you appreciate. Don't focus on that which you don't. Don't underestimate the power of optimism. Whatever you give your attention to will increase in time. It's like watering a plant. Do you want to water the plants that will grow and strangle you? Or do you want to water the plants that will grow to nurture you?

The more you appreciate, the more you will manifest to appreciate. Attention is powerful.