Her definition might be laden with her biases, beliefs, world views, and assumptions. According to her, humility is about feeling special due to the bonding between mother-child that becomes inflated at pathological levels whereby the parents must use shame as means to deflate overinflated self-worth.
My understanding thru experience: Humility might be about coming from a place of learning - that one is ever learning and growing and improving. It's about remaining open to the possibility of not knowing or improving. It's not about self-worth or significance. It's about being open and flexible to discover self. Humility or humbleness is often misunderstood as meek or degrade oneself and happens across cultures in this world. Often by those who have orange and yellow ray catalyst about their own self-worth and issues around relationships w/ 'authoritah'.
When catalyst is interpreted positively, we don't feel shame or stupid or insignificant/deflated/meek or overinflated/significant etc- we appreciate that we are able to accept something with openness of heart and mind bc we are learning something new about self & world around us. One might feel gratitude and knowing that, yeah I did not understand this before and now I am grateful for this lesson for I have grown. Humbled. Perhaps it may be something like: teach me please, bc I do not understand.
My understanding thru experience: Humility might be about coming from a place of learning - that one is ever learning and growing and improving. It's about remaining open to the possibility of not knowing or improving. It's not about self-worth or significance. It's about being open and flexible to discover self. Humility or humbleness is often misunderstood as meek or degrade oneself and happens across cultures in this world. Often by those who have orange and yellow ray catalyst about their own self-worth and issues around relationships w/ 'authoritah'.
When catalyst is interpreted positively, we don't feel shame or stupid or insignificant/deflated/meek or overinflated/significant etc- we appreciate that we are able to accept something with openness of heart and mind bc we are learning something new about self & world around us. One might feel gratitude and knowing that, yeah I did not understand this before and now I am grateful for this lesson for I have grown. Humbled. Perhaps it may be something like: teach me please, bc I do not understand.
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