Ra on Ego

[manniz]

In simpler language, yes ego can be seen as an inflated sense of self, and therefore using that sense of superiority to feel okay to dominate others, criticize others, without much self-introspection. One can also have an inflated sense of self, without the desire to dominate others. Like a kind, but pampered, coddled child. Wilcox is a good example.

- About criticism, an essential aspect of existence is experience too. No point in trying to be perfect all of the time, or even most of the time. Therefore, perfect criticism is not that important. Relaxation, pleasant snarky remarks, puncturing of pampered bubbles, and so on are also an interesting part of criticism.

Though, good to maintain kindness and empathy in criticism, when possible.

Tanner, you are a kind soul for sure, and I can see why some forms of criticism may not be your favorite. Some like me can be a bit shameless once in a while, and I do think that it is of service to prick pampered bubbles every once in a while. Especially on forums. In real life, face to face interaction, I am far less critical, because verbal communication severely distorts criticism. In face to face interactions, often kindness helps more, especially with all the non-verbal clues coming into play (eyes, smile, body language and so on).