Finding 'love' in a situation: In operational terms I call it genuine regard, honesty, and being able to understand the situation for both self and other self. With each catalyst accepted I think I can expand what it means to find love in a situation & exand the tools in my tool bag to work with catalyst of the moment or in the future.
Indifference: When you notice you are not experiencing emotions that much, it could mean many things. The more balanced someone is, the more they have acceptance so there is less emotional charge.
Another possibility is that indifference may be like an emotional cut-off, which happens when someone is emotionally overload and now has to cut emotions off as part of self-preservation or whatnot. It could be a form of 'overcoming' via repression. There are ways to divert emotional charge, e.g., laughing, using expressions that don't seem to fit the situation, etc., etc.,. Therefore it's different from how balanced person experiences less emotional charge.
Boundaries offer a healthy distance to something that is emotionally charged. You have the opportunity or choice to step back, breath, reflect, and set or adjust course as appropriate to situation.
I too, experience the joy that they are able to move on and embark on the next phase of journey (and cry too). Perhaps your beliefs around the after-life may effect the way you handle the issue. Rituals around death is like an opportunity for people to have some sort of closure around the death, so whatever the experience, it's an opportunity to process their emotions.
Indifference: When you notice you are not experiencing emotions that much, it could mean many things. The more balanced someone is, the more they have acceptance so there is less emotional charge.
Quote:42.9 Questioner: How can a person know when he is unswayed by an emotionally charged situation or if he is repressing the flow of emotions, or if he is in balance and truly unswayed?
Ra: I am Ra. We have spoken to this point. Therefore, we shall briefly iterate that to the balanced entity no situation has an emotional charge but is simply a situation like any other in which the entity may or may not observe an opportunity to be of service. The closer an entity comes to this attitude the closer an entity is to balance. You may note that it is not our recommendation that reactions to catalyst be repressed or suppressed unless such reactions would be a stumbling block not consonant with the Law of One to an other-self. It is far, far better to allow the experience to express itself in order that the entity may then make fuller use of this catalyst.
Another possibility is that indifference may be like an emotional cut-off, which happens when someone is emotionally overload and now has to cut emotions off as part of self-preservation or whatnot. It could be a form of 'overcoming' via repression. There are ways to divert emotional charge, e.g., laughing, using expressions that don't seem to fit the situation, etc., etc.,. Therefore it's different from how balanced person experiences less emotional charge.
Boundaries offer a healthy distance to something that is emotionally charged. You have the opportunity or choice to step back, breath, reflect, and set or adjust course as appropriate to situation.
I too, experience the joy that they are able to move on and embark on the next phase of journey (and cry too). Perhaps your beliefs around the after-life may effect the way you handle the issue. Rituals around death is like an opportunity for people to have some sort of closure around the death, so whatever the experience, it's an opportunity to process their emotions.