Dear brother, I am so sorry to hear what happened to you! 
I don't have an experience of broken heart in matters of mated relationships, but I do know pain and what broken heart means! My heart got so broken that it later manifested in my physical body as a decease which brings a lot of pain. Even today, when my heart is closed, I can sometimes feel this pain coming back, and need to take my medication, lay down and contemplate love, in order to heal.
As to that pain, the pain of broken heart, I have lately discovered that it maybe isn't that bad. It isn't something that I should fear and avoid. It is there no matter what I do, it is there no matter how much I try to numb it with gazillions different things, and it isn't going away. So, what I have lately discovered is actually a state of not fearing it, but facing it right as it is, while I keep encouring myself that "it's not that bad, it's not that bad, it's not that bad". And my oh my, I have discovered that there is some sort of beauty in this pain, when you let it to overwhelm you, and embrace you, letting it flow through you - that it gives life to me, and that this pain is actually something wonderful. I understand that this might sound strange or weird, but these are my experiences with pain, made in meditation, seeking and contemplation. When I embrace my broken heart, the pain, the loss and missing, it feels like the Infinite One is becoming alive in my everyday life, and I can once again be in touch with this Source.
I send my love and light to you, dear brother!
I don't have an experience of broken heart in matters of mated relationships, but I do know pain and what broken heart means! My heart got so broken that it later manifested in my physical body as a decease which brings a lot of pain. Even today, when my heart is closed, I can sometimes feel this pain coming back, and need to take my medication, lay down and contemplate love, in order to heal.
As to that pain, the pain of broken heart, I have lately discovered that it maybe isn't that bad. It isn't something that I should fear and avoid. It is there no matter what I do, it is there no matter how much I try to numb it with gazillions different things, and it isn't going away. So, what I have lately discovered is actually a state of not fearing it, but facing it right as it is, while I keep encouring myself that "it's not that bad, it's not that bad, it's not that bad". And my oh my, I have discovered that there is some sort of beauty in this pain, when you let it to overwhelm you, and embrace you, letting it flow through you - that it gives life to me, and that this pain is actually something wonderful. I understand that this might sound strange or weird, but these are my experiences with pain, made in meditation, seeking and contemplation. When I embrace my broken heart, the pain, the loss and missing, it feels like the Infinite One is becoming alive in my everyday life, and I can once again be in touch with this Source.
I send my love and light to you, dear brother!
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