10-24-2013, 10:28 AM
Kick them out. So long as you perceive yourself to be their victim, you will be.
I experienced all sorts of ridiculous crap for over 10 years (you've already seen some of the pictures) before being able to say "I absolutely do NOT want you in my life in any way." and mean it genuinely. As soon as I did this, all that drama disappeared. I realized I had been clinging to the experience because I felt it validated my polarity, it made me feel special and got me lots of attention, and in some way I felt I deserved it/wasn't strong enough to stand up to it. Like there was nothing I could do to stop it. You CAN stand up to these buggers, no matter what density they are from. Leave no place for them in your life.
I remember Carla talking about how Don felt his death was inevitable in his last days. He allowed himself to give up and think the negs had won, and it was a downward spiral from there. So long as you have the will to have a life free of this interference, you can make it so. Search yourself deeply for any part of yourself that may still be holding on to what you are experiencing.
I experienced all sorts of ridiculous crap for over 10 years (you've already seen some of the pictures) before being able to say "I absolutely do NOT want you in my life in any way." and mean it genuinely. As soon as I did this, all that drama disappeared. I realized I had been clinging to the experience because I felt it validated my polarity, it made me feel special and got me lots of attention, and in some way I felt I deserved it/wasn't strong enough to stand up to it. Like there was nothing I could do to stop it. You CAN stand up to these buggers, no matter what density they are from. Leave no place for them in your life.
I remember Carla talking about how Don felt his death was inevitable in his last days. He allowed himself to give up and think the negs had won, and it was a downward spiral from there. So long as you have the will to have a life free of this interference, you can make it so. Search yourself deeply for any part of yourself that may still be holding on to what you are experiencing.