Two souls permanently becoming one...

[Adonai One]

Seems like the desire for power through the access to multiple complexes, to me. I understanding merging and blending in terms of sharing or communion, but for two individuals to destruct or deconstruct themselves in order to dissolve their individuality in to a single personality seems, to me, to be not loving or appreciative of each individuality. Such a thing, to me, seems like it would be dangerous because if two individual merge, what personality becomes dominant? Which of the two, or more, is the self that is retained? If a completely new self is formed, what is that formed out of?

It's not zero-sum. Both personalities can combine into something that simultaneously resembles both just as infinity simultaneously represents all things, big and small with no dominance.