Is discipline lack of polarity?

[Crysis]

As others have said, two steps forward, one step backward. The step backward will be less 'painfull' if you don't approach 'your' problem with hatred, negative feeling.
It's funny how you display your paradigm, they exercise their free will, but you come out of blue sky and inflict on their joy. Tough one. You just gave me one more reason not to get 2d friend into my life.