08-24-2013, 06:24 AM
I have thought about this tremendously over the span of the last few years, and I can only conclude with this; "Aim for 50.1% positive polarization by agreeing and allowing yourself to do things which are blatantly and clearly self serving, then using that clarity and blataness of self serving to coordinate that which is not for self serving by distance from emotion/action felt during self serving." Then focus self serving actions onto areas and situations that are voluntarily undertaken with you, while focusing positive actions into situations where not all participants are voluntary and or it is not done in your area.
Example.
In your house its your rules, polarize towards negative there and inform dogs that since they are in your space you must, by definition, be the "top dog" and if they are unable to deal with it, it is their problem.
Outside of your house its societal rules, where when someone comes and shoves or hits you, the dog is not allowed to bite them back, even if in your house it would be the anticipated norm due to negative polarization.
From that you can get a steady foothold into negative which you know you must keep under the neccesary amount to polarize towards the negative but sufficient to "skip over" any such moral dillemas as this and get to the non dillemaed service to other parts.
Since if you do this you will no longer be worried about it at home and thus be able to serve others in a more full manner when you embark upon serving others.
Example.
In your house its your rules, polarize towards negative there and inform dogs that since they are in your space you must, by definition, be the "top dog" and if they are unable to deal with it, it is their problem.
Outside of your house its societal rules, where when someone comes and shoves or hits you, the dog is not allowed to bite them back, even if in your house it would be the anticipated norm due to negative polarization.
From that you can get a steady foothold into negative which you know you must keep under the neccesary amount to polarize towards the negative but sufficient to "skip over" any such moral dillemas as this and get to the non dillemaed service to other parts.
Since if you do this you will no longer be worried about it at home and thus be able to serve others in a more full manner when you embark upon serving others.