what are the ways in which we avoid catalyst?

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Have seen cases where catalyst is dealt with by adding multiple new catalyst thus forgetting the orginal catalyst somewhere in the mix (commonly known as being 'drama' prone).

Attending to minor catalyst that are more 'accessible' and 'approachable', while fearing deeper catalyst and not wanting to go there.

Intellectualizing/overanalyzing catalyst without tending to emotions in catalyst, for example, instead of getting into one's catalyst person would divert conversation to philosophical matters (that is probably a subset of avoiding emotions).

Looping -taking the all too famliar path to temporarily relieving pressures from catalyst while not really getting deeper into it.

Taking one perspective on the catalyst without attempting to understand the fragmentation of self (personality split) that may not be in congruence (commonly seen as ambivalent about something). E.g., if person tends to access part of self that is more angry, and wants to remain in that place of anger without accessing that mature or nurturing part of self that may have a fresh perspective on catalyst. Could also be the opposite where person accesses part of self that is very nurturing or allowing (it's all OK, I'm going to be OK), to drown out the angery part of self that may shed light on the catalyst.