08-03-2013, 09:28 PM
Got any recent personal examples? Interested to see your methodology.
I know personally I try to keep mine nice and simple no over analysing like I used to. E.g recent example. Have had a bit of a conflict with my close friend, we both share a very similar load of catalyst but almost in an opposite way, him being a close friend since I was 7 and seeing him numerous times in dreams which I feel where us together in different incarnations means whenever an issue arises with him I know to look for ways in which I can change my perspective but also ways in which I can help serve him when he asks for it which I have felt some of these conflicts are.
A recent issue has been honesty, it seams to be popping up regularly between us. Not so much the honesty of me to him but more honesty towards others. I will tell the truth even when he doesn't and wanted me to lie as well. So it happened last night he didn't want some of our other friends to know about something and had told me about it earlier, I told him I'am not going to lie there's no point it will just create problems and there is no reason to really but I said I wouldn't mention it if they didn't ask. So of-course they ended up asking me about it that night when we where all together and so I told them.
From that point I felt the friction in my mind, I could see my friend change in mood because of that but I resisted the urge to think about seperation and just relfected on how what I did was a true expression of my will and basically all the other noise that would and has been going on in my head distorting the situation turning me more against either my friend or myself wasn't there.
I was calm and cool and recognised the catalyst and both of our distortions and it simply went away. My friend was back in a better mood sooner rather then later and seamed to accept that I had to tell them. Of course this was all in combination with other queues, felt tightness in my body when it happened then eventually felt nice and loose and freely flowing when the friction had past. My I-Ching reading earlier that day pretty much predicted it so I was quite well prepared.
I know personally I try to keep mine nice and simple no over analysing like I used to. E.g recent example. Have had a bit of a conflict with my close friend, we both share a very similar load of catalyst but almost in an opposite way, him being a close friend since I was 7 and seeing him numerous times in dreams which I feel where us together in different incarnations means whenever an issue arises with him I know to look for ways in which I can change my perspective but also ways in which I can help serve him when he asks for it which I have felt some of these conflicts are.
A recent issue has been honesty, it seams to be popping up regularly between us. Not so much the honesty of me to him but more honesty towards others. I will tell the truth even when he doesn't and wanted me to lie as well. So it happened last night he didn't want some of our other friends to know about something and had told me about it earlier, I told him I'am not going to lie there's no point it will just create problems and there is no reason to really but I said I wouldn't mention it if they didn't ask. So of-course they ended up asking me about it that night when we where all together and so I told them.
From that point I felt the friction in my mind, I could see my friend change in mood because of that but I resisted the urge to think about seperation and just relfected on how what I did was a true expression of my will and basically all the other noise that would and has been going on in my head distorting the situation turning me more against either my friend or myself wasn't there.
I was calm and cool and recognised the catalyst and both of our distortions and it simply went away. My friend was back in a better mood sooner rather then later and seamed to accept that I had to tell them. Of course this was all in combination with other queues, felt tightness in my body when it happened then eventually felt nice and loose and freely flowing when the friction had past. My I-Ching reading earlier that day pretty much predicted it so I was quite well prepared.
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