Honesty in relationships/open blue ray activity.

[spero]

an interesting thing you could try is the below

32.5 Questioner: OK. Thank you. I believe that for the time being we’ve amply covered green ray, so I am going to skip over green ray and go to blue ray. Could you tell me the difference that occurs between green and blue with the emphasis on blue ray?

Ra: I am Ra. With the green-ray transfer of energy you now come to the great turning point sexually as well as in each other mode of experience. The green ray may then be turned outward, the entity then giving rather than receiving. The first giving beyond green ray is the giving of acceptance or freedom, thus allowing the recipient of blue-ray energy transfer the opportunity for a feeling of being accepted, thus freeing that other-self to express itself to the giver of this ray. It will be noted that once green-ray energy transfer has been achieved by two mind/body/spirits in mating, the further rays are available without both entities having the necessity to progress equally. Thus a blue-ray vibrating entity or indigo-ray vibrating entity whose other ray vibrations are clear may share that energy with the green-ray other-self, thus acting as catalyst for the continued learn/teaching of the other-self. Until an other-self reaches green ray, such energy transfers through the rays is not possible.

It suggests you only need to cultivate an open green ray in your wife, which will facilitate the ability for you to start sharing your higher centre findings with her. If you try sharing these kind of energies when your wife is operating at yellow or orange ray then you're gonna have a bad time. Working on green ray together might be a good way to even up the playing field between you two, so that when you start work again on the higher centres, your wife will be more receptive to the things you wish to share.