07-20-2013, 10:30 AM
It might also be favorable to keep in mind the old adage, "If I can't say anything nice, I won't say anything at all." If you have an opinion or point of view that may hurt her feelings, just bite your tongue. If you want to revisit the topic later and not in the heat of the moment so to speak, try to think of a gentle and loving way to inform her. Every time you hurt her feelings, that will push her away, and is then facilitating separatism.
There is often different protocol for those who are still "sleeping", so don't fret if things feel a bit uneasy at times. It is rarely necessary to "stoop" all the way "down" to yellow ray, try to stop at green and just offer her unconditional love, even if her point of view is seemingly incorrect at times. When she revisits these events and she recalls the patience and love you showed her when she was being extra difficult, she will be grateful and achieve a greater understanding of what we are all trying to grasp.
Hope this helps, my friend.
There is often different protocol for those who are still "sleeping", so don't fret if things feel a bit uneasy at times. It is rarely necessary to "stoop" all the way "down" to yellow ray, try to stop at green and just offer her unconditional love, even if her point of view is seemingly incorrect at times. When she revisits these events and she recalls the patience and love you showed her when she was being extra difficult, she will be grateful and achieve a greater understanding of what we are all trying to grasp.
Hope this helps, my friend.
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