I am hesitant to comment on an already amazing, thorough and lengthy thread about the nature of Sex/Sexual Energy Transfers, but I guess that I am still wondering about it in relation to my own experiences.
Monica, I felt that your initial response resonated so strongly with my own feelings! I also thought that the LOO passage was eye-opening the first time that I had read it. It voiced an intuition that I'd had since I began my current long-term relationship; I simply had not been able to express clearly to my partner. Before I read LOO, I explained to him that I felt that Sex should be Spiritual, but he did not understand my perspective or seem to agree with it. I felt brokenhearted, but I still attempted to show him what I meant when we made love after discussing this. It really didn't seem to resonate with him and I have felt out of touch with him sexually since (this was early last year). Although we have since made love, it's usually the case that he feels exhilarated afterward and I feel physically tired and emotionally drained. And I do keep coming to this LOO quote in my mind that you pointed out:
I also look to this quote:
What I have been trying to figure out is whether this is the result of an energy blockage that I may have or that he may have or that both of us may have. He has shared with me before that he could have sex every day if I wanted, which surprised me. I have never quite felt that way because I always thought it was about the quality of experience and not necessarily the quantity.
So I am still contemplating this because this same sexual dynamic continues and I am feeling confused and saddened by it.
I would welcome any thoughts from anyone about this predicament.
Monica, I felt that your initial response resonated so strongly with my own feelings! I also thought that the LOO passage was eye-opening the first time that I had read it. It voiced an intuition that I'd had since I began my current long-term relationship; I simply had not been able to express clearly to my partner. Before I read LOO, I explained to him that I felt that Sex should be Spiritual, but he did not understand my perspective or seem to agree with it. I felt brokenhearted, but I still attempted to show him what I meant when we made love after discussing this. It really didn't seem to resonate with him and I have felt out of touch with him sexually since (this was early last year). Although we have since made love, it's usually the case that he feels exhilarated afterward and I feel physically tired and emotionally drained. And I do keep coming to this LOO quote in my mind that you pointed out:
Quote:Due to the veiling process the energy transferred from male to female is different than that transferred from female to male. Due to the polarity difference of the mind/body/spirit complexes of male and female the male stores physical energy, the female mental and mental/emotional energy. When third-density sexual energy transfer is completed the male will have offered the discharge of physical energy. The female is, thereby, refreshed, having far less physical vitality. At the same time, if you will use this term, the female discharges the efflux of its stored mental and mental/emotional energy, thereby offering inspiration, healing, and blessing to the male which by nature is less vital in this area.
I also look to this quote:
Quote:In green ray there are two possibilities. Firstly, if both vibrate in green ray there will be a mutually strengthening energy transfer, the negative or female, as you call it, drawing the energy from the roots of the being-ness through the energy centers, thus being physically revitalized; the positive, or male polarity, as it is deemed in your illusion, finding in its energy transfer an inspiration which satisfies and feeds the spirit portion of the body/mind/spirit complex, thus both being polarized and releasing the excess of that which each has in abundance by nature of intelligent energy, that is, negative/intuitive, positive/physical energies as you may call them; this energy transfer being blocked only if one or both entities have fear of possession or of being possessed, of desiring possession or desiring being possessed.
What I have been trying to figure out is whether this is the result of an energy blockage that I may have or that he may have or that both of us may have. He has shared with me before that he could have sex every day if I wanted, which surprised me. I have never quite felt that way because I always thought it was about the quality of experience and not necessarily the quantity.
So I am still contemplating this because this same sexual dynamic continues and I am feeling confused and saddened by it. I would welcome any thoughts from anyone about this predicament.