04-30-2013, 03:05 PM
Hello Gentlereckoning.
I don't think the stories are exactly the same. Because the evidence question has the potential for defense in it. It is not agreeing with the attackers point of view.
For me the whole question comes down to where you draw the line. When someone is doing something only a bit negative and you have a close and loving relationship with them, then it's almost always OK. The love trumps all.
But beyond a certain point, you have to remove yourself from the vicinity of someone who is negative, you have to respect yourself, which is easier if you don't know them so well.
I don't think the stories are exactly the same. Because the evidence question has the potential for defense in it. It is not agreeing with the attackers point of view.
For me the whole question comes down to where you draw the line. When someone is doing something only a bit negative and you have a close and loving relationship with them, then it's almost always OK. The love trumps all.
But beyond a certain point, you have to remove yourself from the vicinity of someone who is negative, you have to respect yourself, which is easier if you don't know them so well.