When you have problems with relations with other people...

[Unbound]

Accepting my power has been a huge lesson for me, especially in regards to accepting the praise from other people. I pursued power relentlessly in other lives, and now that I have it but no longer seek to use it on others it is very difficult for me to come to terms that some desire my service which requires its use. I do not use my powers in the ways of destruction and separation anymore, but it has been a long road to build trust in my own positive intentions, even though I have always had them in this life.

The "right way" to use power is, I believe, the greatest lesson that comes from the attempt to blend love and wisdom.