04-02-2013, 12:59 AM
Re: red ray/imbalance
I guess if the other person knows you're going to be blunt and that is how you prefer to interact with others/have an agreement to be blunt, then I don't see a problem. I ultimately have to be honest with myself and take responsibility for my own reactions to other person's bluntness. If I start blaming or diagnosing others as having imbalances for their bluntness, then is that not an imbalance?
I guess if the other person knows you're going to be blunt and that is how you prefer to interact with others/have an agreement to be blunt, then I don't see a problem. I ultimately have to be honest with myself and take responsibility for my own reactions to other person's bluntness. If I start blaming or diagnosing others as having imbalances for their bluntness, then is that not an imbalance?