I've discovered what I was intended to do in this incarnation...

[suraj]

Do we "create" externally - we all can do that if we want... Or do we change ourselves on the inside and do the work within - taking our queues from what goes on - in the outside?

Actually - you can try both ways - Example - I was trying to love the outside world which subconsciously I detested . I realized that I also hated and suppressed the Selfish Self within me . I realized until I stopped being harsh and judgemental on myself - I cant really offer unconditional love to others.. It work both ways ... no matter which way you start