Manifesting a True Soul Mate

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Do you frequent areas where people matching your profile can be found? Try finding circles interested in philosophy/alternative philosophy etc. Anywhere where people strive to improve aspects of themselves.

So going clubbing might not be the ideal way of seeking. On a related note, unless you're a regular drinker yourself(counterproductive to change) try to find someone that drinks as often as you. (Ideally for fastest growth, total abstinence is key). There has been studies on alcohol habits and relationship quality.

Also the type of person you're looking for is quite rare, your chances will improve by finding someone willing to grow and expand, and you'll be on equal ground in no time.

Best of luck,