03-03-2013, 11:56 PM
(This post was last modified: 03-03-2013, 11:59 PM by JustLikeYou.)
First, I'd like to applaud Icaro on seeking the answer to the question in experience. This is how I've found the mysteries of the Law of One reveal themselves most readily.
Second, I'd like to like Austin's post three times, but that's against the rules.
My take on this is from my own experience. I haven't found that approaching a situation from green ray (lacking blue ray) results in communication of lower imbalances. But I HAVE found that attempting to communicate without a developed blue ray results in communicating imbalances.
As Austin underscored, accepting the other and communicating that acceptance are two entirely different things. It is very easy for a green-ray person to be treated like a doormat because these people are not particularly good at communicating themselves. This is what makes them so vulnerable to lower energies: green ray is an archetypically female energy. It is receptive. It does not know how to build boundaries which can absorb the imbalances of others without knocking green ray itself out of balance. That is the task of a male energy, namely blue ray.
My experience is that communicating honestly, lovingly and sincerely is what disarms people who are acting from imbalance. Without a strong blue ray, this is not possible. Moreover, when you communicate clearly and effectively from a position of balance, those who are imbalanced will become painfully aware of their own imbalances. This is how the balanced entity holds a mirror up to others. I remember I had a friend a few years ago whom I loved and admired greatly. He always showed me how much I still had to learn beacuse whenever I judged someone else, his refusal to cooperate in that act of judgment made me aware of how frequently I was doing it. If he did not have access to blue ray, he would have simply listened and loved me as I said my judgmental statements. Instead, he let me know he wasn't going to participate.
An even more ubiquitous experience is gaining the respect of others. People may not like you when you are direct and honest, but they will respect you. If you never say what is on your mind, you will gain little respect even if your loving energy is appreciated. In this sense, you can look at the respect you have garnered in people around you as an act of co-creation.
Second, I'd like to like Austin's post three times, but that's against the rules.
My take on this is from my own experience. I haven't found that approaching a situation from green ray (lacking blue ray) results in communication of lower imbalances. But I HAVE found that attempting to communicate without a developed blue ray results in communicating imbalances.
As Austin underscored, accepting the other and communicating that acceptance are two entirely different things. It is very easy for a green-ray person to be treated like a doormat because these people are not particularly good at communicating themselves. This is what makes them so vulnerable to lower energies: green ray is an archetypically female energy. It is receptive. It does not know how to build boundaries which can absorb the imbalances of others without knocking green ray itself out of balance. That is the task of a male energy, namely blue ray.
My experience is that communicating honestly, lovingly and sincerely is what disarms people who are acting from imbalance. Without a strong blue ray, this is not possible. Moreover, when you communicate clearly and effectively from a position of balance, those who are imbalanced will become painfully aware of their own imbalances. This is how the balanced entity holds a mirror up to others. I remember I had a friend a few years ago whom I loved and admired greatly. He always showed me how much I still had to learn beacuse whenever I judged someone else, his refusal to cooperate in that act of judgment made me aware of how frequently I was doing it. If he did not have access to blue ray, he would have simply listened and loved me as I said my judgmental statements. Instead, he let me know he wasn't going to participate.
An even more ubiquitous experience is gaining the respect of others. People may not like you when you are direct and honest, but they will respect you. If you never say what is on your mind, you will gain little respect even if your loving energy is appreciated. In this sense, you can look at the respect you have garnered in people around you as an act of co-creation.