(02-05-2013, 01:01 PM)Gemini Wolf Wrote: Spaced, in what you say about polarizing using catalyst, is it as simple as keeping the heart open, and seeing others as Creator that can help one to polarize? When you are experiencing catalyst, not being emotionally upset can help one to polarize positively?
To me it's all in how you react to the catalyst. It's fine get emotionally upset when dealing with catalyst, what's important is that you don't push those feelings away and also that you don't let them hijack your willpower. Instead, embrace them and accept them as a part of your thought process which deserves equal say. By doing this, amplifying these feelings in your being, you are taking away their power over you by owning them as a part of yourself. In my experience this makes it far easier to choose not to act on these potentially unhelpful emotions and eventually the emotions just stop popping up in the situations where they used to. I find the path to positive polarity comes from accepting every part of yourself, even the ones you aren't particularly proud of, which makes it easier to accept those things in others as well.
This of course is all my opinion and subject to the distortions of my thought process