02-24-2010, 09:07 PM
(02-24-2010, 05:50 PM)ahktu Wrote: Still, I have a hard time imagining that two people would be destined to be together, unless they'd decided to be together before incarnation. Seems like that's kind of throwing away free will.
How would that be throwing away free will? Everything we do while in the incarnate state is due to having free will. There is no guarantee that the planned event wouldn't go wrong anyway, due to free will.
(02-24-2010, 05:50 PM)ahktu Wrote: I think finding someone you resonate with and sharing love with them is a wondeful thing, but not necessarily brought about because they are the only other being in the universe you would be compatible with.
In the incarnate state, I have all but given up on meeting anyone with the same spiritual values, without an addiction or alcohol problem, and wants a 44 year old man with a 19 month old daughter.
I woke from a dream this morning where I had gone through literally tens of thousands of women and rejected them all, only to get upset that I couldn't find anyone remotely compatible. At that point in the dream, I sat in a hammock among trees by a lake and listened to Mr. Mr. "Broken Wings". That's when I woke up.
In dream analysis, this indicates that there are feelings or situations that I may want to be rid of, or may be refusing to accept a situation that is being imposed and forced upon me. Either way, it leaves me single and wishing I could share my new found happiness with someone.